First Reason: A Display of Ucer Perfection
Narcissistic parents possess an insatiable need to present an image of the picture-perfect family. They obsess over their children’s appearances, mannerisms, and accomplishments, viewing them as reflections of their own parenting prowess. This fixation on surface-level attributes rather than genuine emotional depth erodes any real connection within the relationship. Narcissistic parents selectively treat their children, assigning roles such as the scapegoat, black sheep, and golden child.
The golden child, who consistently meets the parents’ standards and relentlessly strives to meet their goals, often loses their own sense of identity in the process. In many instances, these golden children eventually develop narcissistic traits themselves. Conversely, scapegoats who fail to meet the parents’ lofty expectations of perfection are faced with the brunt of their wrath and subjected to ongoing abuse. Fair and equal treatment among children is a concept unknown to narcissistic parents, as their focus rests solely on upholding their illusory facade of flawlessness.
Second Reason: Favoritism and Sibling Manipulation
Expanding upon the previous point, narcissistic parents frequently exhibit favoritism towards one child while neglecting or mistreating the others. They utilize the favored child as a strategic ally, exploiting their position to manipulate and control their siblings for their own gain. This favoritism is devoid of genuine affection and instead functions as a tool to maintain dominance and control within the family dynamic. The narcissistic parent skillfully orchestrates the family like marionettes, with each member dancing to their manipulative tune. Only the scapegoat, burdened with the weight of dysfunction, truly comprehends the underlying dynamics at play within the family structure.
Third Reason: Affection for Public Validation
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