This is not just about closeted sexuality; this is about abuse. Because the moment someone drags you into their lie without your consent and makes you a shield for their shame, that is not just deception; that is emotional violence. You are not crazy for feeling unwanted. I want you to know you’re not paranoid for noticing the disconnect, and you’re not judgmental for questioning why something feels off. The narcissist does not want a partner; they want a cover story. They want to live a double life—one they can show the world and one they can keep hidden.
And you become the unfortunate evidence of their straightness: the childbearer, the public spouse, the fake desire made real through manipulation. It is time to stop blaming yourself, please. Because when a narcissist uses you to hide their sexuality, they are not struggling with who they are. No, they are using who you are to run from it. And that is the deepest betrayal of all—the worst form of betrayal known to mankind.
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