Reason number three: you were sent to trigger their deepest insecurities while they revealed your hidden strengths. Beneath a narcissist’s grandiose exterior lies a core of shame, inadequacy, and self-loathing so profound that they have built their entire personality to avoid confronting it. Your genuine self-worth, even if you did not fully recognize it at the time, threatened their constructed superiority. Your natural talents, capacity for growth, and ability to form real connections—all of these qualities triggered their deepest fears about their own inadequacy. You were living proof that they were not special, superior, or irreplaceable. Your very existence reminded them of everything they were not and could never become.
This constant triggering was their karma for all the insecurities they had projected onto others throughout their lives. But while you were triggering their insecurities, they were simultaneously revealing strengths within you that you never knew existed. Their attempts to break you down showed you just how resilient you truly were. Their efforts to control you revealed an inner strength that refused to be dominated. Their criticism and devaluation forced you to develop an unshakable sense of self that no external force could destroy. Every time they tried to diminish you, they were actually building your spiritual muscle. Every attack on your character forced you to define who you really were. Every attempt to make you question your sanity taught you to trust your inner knowing.
Reason 4: Isolating Them and Learning Discernment
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