Reason number four: you were the universe’s way of isolating them while their presence taught you discernment. Narcissists rely on their ability to maintain multiple sources of supply—friends, family, colleagues, and romantic partners who feed their need for validation and control. You know that. But you were sent into their life as the person who would ultimately cost them these connections. Your presence began to expose their true nature to others. People who had previously been fooled by their charm started to see the manipulation, lies, and emotional abuse through your experience.
I know you may say, “Well, they have a ton of flying monkeys enabling them.” I understand. To a certain degree, the authentic ones—the ones who were getting fooled and abused—woke up because of your presence. You became the catalyst that revealed their pattern of behavior to their entire social circle. Those who wanted to wake up did wake up. The narcissist’s treatment of you became so obviously destructive that it forced others to choose sight. Many people who had previously enabled or overlooked their behavior could no longer maintain their denial when confronted with the reality of how they treated you. You were the straw that broke the camel’s back of their social facade. It was karmic justice.
For many years, they had isolated others from their support system, primarily turning people against each other and manipulating social dynamics for their benefit. You were sent to turn this pattern back on them, becoming the reason they lost the very support systems they had weaponized against others. While you were serving as their karma, isolating them from their fake support network, their manipulative behavior forced you to develop the ability to see through facades and recognize authentic people. Their lies taught you to trust your intuition when something feels off. Their betrayals showed you the difference between genuine loyalty and performative support. Through their treatment of you, you learned to identify red flags immediately. You developed an internal warning system, which I call “Narcraar,” that alerts you to manipulation, love bombing, and false promises. You gained the ability to see people’s true intentions beneath their words. While you were their karma, exposing their manipulative nature, their presence was showing you how to never be manipulated again.
I want to repeat myself: I’m not giving any credit to the narcissist. I am not disregarding the pain you have experienced and the potential lifetime of psychological trauma that you will take a long time to recover from. What I’m saying is that these are deeper spiritual lessons. This should give you some sort of closure that the narcissist will never be able to achieve on their own.
Reason 5: Spiritual Reckoning and Awakening
The Narcissist Pretends to Forget You—Here’s the Sinister Reason Why
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