If narcissists were honest, they’d tell you upfront that their love bombing tactics are only going to lead to more manipulation and mind games. But narcissists are anything but honest, which leads to major secrets. Secrets that, if you knew them, would make it much easier to break free. Today, I’m exposing those secrets and, in doing so, helping you take your power back from the narcissist. So, let’s jump in.
Secret #1 – Why seeking revenge on a narcissist can backfire
Narcissists don’t want you to know this, but they will absolutely self-destruct if it means they can bring you down too. There’s a saying, “If you seek revenge, dig two graves,” and that definitely applies here. Before seeking revenge on a narcissist, understand that they may lose money, destroy their own business, or hurt themselves just to spite you. Most people aren’t willing to go that far, so tread lightly when it comes to revenge. Getting even keeps you stuck in their games, while walking away can be hard but immensely valuable.
Secret #2 – What the narcissist’s mask hides
Underneath all that grandiosity and abuse, narcissists are deeply insecure and very fragile. They bury their true vulnerability under an exaggerated mask, which can look like exaggerated superiority or fake humility, as in the case of a covert narcissist. This insecurity becomes apparent whenever they perceive criticism. They might rage out or give you the silent treatment, but either way, you’ll see they’re not okay.
Consider this: if someone criticizes you for being too quiet when you’re naturally loud, you’d probably laugh. But if they touch on an insecurity, that’s when it hurts. Narcissists are way more insecure than they seem. Push their buttons, and the whole charade comes crashing down.
Secret #3 – What the narcissist hopes you don’t notice
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