Many fancy books on neuro-linguistic programming and psychology can help professionals get what they want from others. However, there are also much simpler, yet just as effective, methods that anyone can use daily. Here are 19 of them. Be sure to subscribe and ring that notification bell to join us on the bright side of life.
1. Never Start with the Words “Could You”
Never start your request with the words “Could you.” It can cause the other person to assume that this is a theoretical question subconsciously. For example, avoid questions like “Could you call the neighbors?” because the answer “Yes” can mean “Yes, I theoretically could,” but not that they agreed to do it. Sure, “Could” is polite, but it’s better to rephrase your request to “Please call the neighbors” if you want to be sure that it’ll be fulfilled.
2. Make Someone Feel Uncomfortable
If you ever want to make someone feel uncomfortable, look at the middle of their forehead during the conversation. Most people say it makes them feel like they’re under scrutiny, which, of course, doesn’t exactly make a person relaxed. Not sure why you’d want to do this to others, but who knows, the situation may arise.
3. Tell the Truth
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