Narcissists absolutely hate it when you wear makeup or style your hair. They want you to look unkempt, feel unsure of yourself, and lack confidence. Why? Because they believe all attention should be on them, and they view themselves as superior to you.
The moment you enhance your appearance, they become bitter, jealous, and insecure. Consequently, they resort to coercive, subtle manipulation tactics to reduce you to a lesser version of yourself.
In simpler terms, they don’t often say things outright, such as, “Wipe off that makeup,” “Stop losing weight,” or “Don’t dress nicely.” They know such statements would be seen as unacceptable. Instead, they guilt-trip you, create confusion, and make you feel obligated to avoid “hurting” their feelings. This emotional manipulation is how they stop you from upgrading yourself.
Let’s discuss this further in this episode. My name is Danish, and I am a narcissistic abuse recovery professional. Welcome to my channel. Today’s topic is straightforward: Why narcissists hate it when you wear makeup or style your hair.
Understanding Narcissists’ Tactics
Narcissists have become savvy enough to avoid overtly controlling statements about your appearance. They know such behavior would raise red flags. Instead, when they see you enhancing your appearance, they make you feel guilty.
1. Subtle Criticism Disguised as Concern
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