It’s important to understand that narcissists like to feel in control of their environment and are constantly on the lookout for signs of potential problems. They are extremely controlling and afraid of any change. To maintain control, they often avoid conflict by blaming others for their mistakes.
The fear of being exposed is the primary motivation for narcissists to be abusive and manipulative. They try to keep their victims in a state of high alert while creating an illusion of success through their manipulation tactics. However, once you recognize these patterns, making a narcissist fear you becomes easier.
By identifying these signs, you can adjust your responses to improve the quality of your interactions and elevate your communication skills. This often increases the narcissist’s anxiety, making them feel more unsettled.
Narcissists experience anxiety as a constant, vague feeling within their mind and body. They are plagued by paranoia, fearing that everything they’ve built could collapse. This anxiety may manifest in their conversations, where they talk about doom or try to make others feel anxious. Other narcissists hide their anxiety by denying their feelings altogether.
In short, narcissists live in constant fear, much of which is hidden or deeply buried. Let’s explore the four things that make narcissists feel anxious and miserable:
1. Narcissists See You as a Threat
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