Today, I want to discuss a common experience many of us face when dealing with a narcissist in our lives. If a narcissist has cut you off or chosen to isolate themselves from you, try not to take it too personally. Understand that, in many ways, they are cornering themselves. This behavior often stems from their personal insecurities and struggles. All you need is patience because, ultimately, they are the ones truly struggling.
Let me also highlight an important point: when an empath or a “chosen one” decides to end a relationship, the impact is profound. You may have been abandoned by a narcissist, but when someone empathetic makes the decision to cut off communication, it’s decisive and deliberate. It’s not a random act but a conscious choice.
It’s natural to feel like pleading, begging, or trying to reconcile with the narcissist after being cut off. However, as I’ve mentioned before, it’s crucial to step back, relax, and trust the process. The narcissist’s actions are not a reflection of your worth but rather their own internal chaos. By rejecting you in such a cold and calculated manner, they seek to hurt you and leave you feeling betrayed, all while avoiding giving you closure.
Imagine if they had ended the relationship with respect and honesty. You would have been able to move on gracefully. Instead, their behavior is designed to provoke pain and confusion. If you’ve found yourself chasing after them—whether through pleading, begging, or any other action—it’s important to recognize that this was part of their plan. They derive a sense of power and control from such reactions.
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