As crazy as this may sound, a narcissist can control you even after their death. Sometimes, they can haunt you from their grave. I know that sounds scary, but I’ll explain how they do so.
1. Legacy of Chaos: Narcissists’ Posthumous Control
Narcissists maintain control through the legacy they leave behind. Narcissists are unjust—they never divide assets fairly. They often design wills in a confusing way to ensure that those entitled to inheritances fight like cats and dogs. It’s like a chess game for them, and it thrills them to think, “When I’m gone, my children will still be thinking about me. My rules will confuse them, and the mystery will keep me in their minds.”
Most parents aim to ensure peace among their children by clearly dividing assets. Narcissists, however, do the opposite, creating chaos that traumatizes everyone involved. For example, they might set conditions like, “If you stay with me, don’t go no-contact, and take care of me, you’ll get a bigger share.” Shockingly, they might make similar promises to others, fueling misunderstandings and greed.
When they die, nothing turns out as promised. You may discover they’ve left you nothing, not even a single penny, despite your efforts to care for them. This betrayal leaves you feeling foolish, but it’s not your fault. It’s the narcissist’s rotten soul, which thrives on chaos, even in death. They may leave behind cryptic letters or hide assets, ensuring prolonged legal battles. Their intent is clear: to create conflict and control even after death.
2. Emotional Burden: Confusion and Guilt
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