Nasty people never thought you would be capable of a lot of things. Believe it or not, your strength has always been underestimated. If you like these videos, please like, follow, and share them. Today, we’re talking about the one thing narcissists never expected you to do—something that makes them regret their actions for the rest of their lives.
Let’s revisit your time with the narcissist. Before we discuss what happened, take a moment to reflect: How did the relationship make you feel? What was the connection like? And, most importantly, in what ways have you changed for the better?
If you weren’t aware of narcissism when the relationship began, you likely didn’t realize what you were getting into. You thought the issues were just “bad days,” or you assumed the other person was either struggling or taking out their problems on you. You gave your best to the relationship—your time, money, energy, love, empathy, and even your health. But over time, things only got worse.
As I’ve said before, you gave too much to keep the relationship afloat. Meanwhile, the narcissist worked tirelessly to sink your boat, ensuring it would eventually capsize. They always had another lifeboat waiting in the background. This pattern is part of the narcissistic abuse cycle: One person gives endlessly while the narcissist keeps taking, never satisfied.
The Narcissist’s World
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Narcissists think and reason differently than most people. They don’t want to grow; they want to take from others. Their relationships are transactional—they see people as resources to exploit and discard. When they approached you, it wasn’t about connection or love; it was about control.
From the beginning, they studied you. They learned your strengths, vulnerabilities, aspirations, and relationships. To them, you were a puzzle to solve—a resource to use for as long as possible. They wore a mask, pretending to be someone they weren’t, just to draw you in.
The longer you stayed with them, the more damage they caused—to your health, finances, and emotional well-being. Once you were no longer useful to them, they moved on, leaving you in a state of confusion and despair.
Breaking Free
The narcissist never thought you’d escape. They didn’t believe you’d figure out what they were doing or recognize the trauma bond they created. But you did. You began to educate yourself about narcissism, practicing radical acceptance, and putting yourself first.
That’s what they never expected—your strength to rise above their control. They thought you’d remain trapped, broken, and dependent on them. Instead, you found the courage to leave, heal, and rebuild.
Moving Forward
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If you’ve been through this, know that you’re not alone. Many people have faced the same darkness and come out stronger. The narcissist didn’t think you’d survive without them—but here you are, thriving. You’re better than the person you were before the relationship.
Say no to their manipulations, protect your boundaries, and remember: Their small-minded games are no match for your growth and resilience. Whether you’ve already healed or are still on your journey, know that every step forward is proof of your strength.
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