The most notable sign that you have hurt a narcissist is understanding how to recognize when you’ve truly gotten to them. A narcissist’s unconscious reality is distorted and oversimplified. These individuals tend to believe they are infallible and that the world is theirs for the taking. They are prone to denial and project their distorted thinking onto others. Often, narcissists find their sense of self by creating a perceived difference; they thrive in chaotic environments and seem out of place in calm and peaceful settings. But what happens when you thoroughly get on a narcissist’s nerves?
Main Point
Narcissists often consider you as an extension of themselves, so the moment you don’t do things the way they want, they may perceive it as a personal attack. There are many signs you can look for to determine if you have offended a narcissist. By paying attention to their reactions, you can tell whether or not you have deeply hurt them. More than any other sign, they may become angry or give you the silent treatment. There’s a reason why they fight back or try to hurt you: it’s because they’re reacting to something you have said or done. Because their ego is wounded by you, they’ll try to hurt you in order to retaliate. They can’t control their emotions in such situations, so they will lash out to alleviate their pain and hopefully restore their ego. This is the most obvious sign that you have hurt a narcissist.
While I can’t say that all narcissists will react the same way, keep in mind that their methods of striking back will differ. Narcissists may verbally or physically abuse you, downplay your achievements, and try to hinder your progress. They might also try to turn others against you. There is a good chance that they will ruin your reputation, stalk you, and harass you whenever they have the opportunity. This is because they are angry with you and won’t stop until they get their revenge.
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