As a result, you have little choice but to prioritize the people who are physically close to you. Everyone has the potential to be taken in by another person, and narcissists will use that potential to either gain access to your life or simply learn more about you. They will pursue a relationship with a member of your family or circle of close friends who is very important to you.
Their main objective is to make you uncomfortable and turn other people against you by winning the favor of everyone in your inner circle. They must first win your favor; they have only one goal in mind, and that is to turn the people against you because you’ve turned down their overtures in the past.
Those who want to take advantage of you are now more prepared than ever to do so in the future. The narcissist will never be content with simply disliking you; they will always want more. Participation is required from everyone in your environment, including yourself. Consequently, they seize every opportunity to spread untruths and engage in slanderous conversations about others.
They do this intentionally to sow the seeds of conflict and cast aspersions on the character of another individual. They are the kind of employees who will stop at nothing until they get you removed from your position and replaced with someone else. Someone like this might make up allegations against you, claiming you are guilty of actions you didn’t commit.
When a narcissist realizes that you have more popularity and respect than they do, they will become obsessed with finding ways to knock you down and make themselves look better. They will act this way because they are terrified of what you will do to them. The ultimate goal of the narcissist is to maintain complete control at all times.
They are willing to engage in any dishonest or unethical behavior, such as stealing, lying, or cheating, to achieve their goal of dominance and control over your life. It is extremely irritating for narcissists when other people are more successful than they are. They despise it when others see through the false personas and identities they have constructed for themselves.
They despise it when we are wise to their tricks and traps and don’t fall for them. They despise our autonomy, our ability to fend for ourselves, and the strong moral character we possess. Because of this, they attempt to steal our belongings while simultaneously destroying us in the process.
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